Creating Family Traditions

I love the holidays! You can stop grumbling at me now because it's not the shopping, decorating, cooking, cards and everything that goes along with the holidays that I love. My favorite part of the holidays are our family traditions and how my children talk about them.

Even though we've lived in many different states, our traditions have stayed the same and the kids talk about them with a fondness in anticipation of the holidays. To me, this is the most heartwarming part of the holidays because there are many holiday traditions from my

childhood that I will always treasure. I remember how my mother always decorated the tree,

the homemade pajamas and a book we received every year, Christmas Eve with 60 of my relatives, dinner with my grandparents whom I loved dearly and many more. What I don't remember are the gifts that I thought were so important at the time but now, are meaningless.

If your children are young or old, you can always create family memories. Over the next several weeks, I will be sharing several ideas you may want to add to your holiday celebration. Please share your ideas so we can learn from each other.

Our kitchen is decorated as a kid-friendly space and our advent tree is the highlight for the kids. We have a small artificial tree that the children decorate with old Mardi Gras beads, lights, small stockings and homemade ornaments.

At the beginning of the season we hang 24 stockings on the tree. In each stocking is an activity for holidays. Each idea gives children a simple fun activity to do with you or for someone else.

The stockings are simple pieces of felt glued or sewn together. You can embellish them anyway you would like or not at all. Each stocking is labeled from 1-24.

On December 1st, the first stocking is "opened" to discover the holiday activity for the day. The stocking is replaced by a simple, kid-friendly ornament the kids have made or been given.

The following are some ideas that I include in the stockings.

1. Decorate stationery to write your letter to Santa

2. Write your letter to Santa

3. Bring cookies to a fire station and thank the firemen and women for all they do.

4. Paint a winter snow scene on a window in your house.

5. Make snowflakes.

6. Write a letter to a soldier overseas.

7. Bring a neighbor some cookies.

8. Make a Christmas ornament.

9. Read a story about Christmas.

10. Tell someone about your favorite holiday tradition.

11. Make a present for your mom.

12. Sell hot chocolate and donate the money to a cause.

13. Make a present for your dad.

14. Be extra helpful to your teacher or friend.

15. Make a present for a sibling.

16. Donate a gift to a child in need.

17. Make some decorations or color some holiday pictures to bring to an assisted living or nursing home.

18. Learn a new Christmas song.

19. Find out how Christmas is celebrated in another country.

20. Pack a lunch or two and give it to homeless people you pass on the street.

21. Ring the bell for the Salvation Army.

22. Visit a local animal shelter and spend some time playing with the animals.

23. Fill a stocking with a piece of candy or small toy for each child.

24. Do something nice for someone without telling them.

25. Make a paper chain to decorate your home.

26. String some pop corn and hang it on a tree for the birds.

Be sure to include your own ideas that work for your family, faith, and are age-appropriate for your kids. Most importantly, create a tradition that celebrates the real reason for the season.

Each day, we will share instructions and ideas for the activities listed above and sites you can visit for information on other activities on the list.

We hope this will help you create or add traditions to your families holidays.