Back-to-School Letters

My kids start school on Wednesday; a day we all look forward to after the first blissful week of summer vacation is over. It's not that we don't like being around each other, we all just love structure in our day even if it includes scheduled lazy time. It's just our personalities and we function better with a routine.

Now that the day is fast approaching and we've done the school shopping, the kids know who their teachers are going to be, we've decided what breakfast will be on the first day there's still one thing I like to do at the beginning of each school year...write a letter.

Because we moved so much when our children were young, it seemed as if they were in a new school every year so I began the tradition of writing a letter to their teacher on the first day of school. Now I know most of the teachers probably didn't even read the letter because they thought I was a pushy parent or they wanted to make their own assessment of my child, and I was okay with either reason. Since I had been a teacher for many years, I made certain that the letter was not pushy or caused the teacher to think that I had an agenda. However, the most interesting thing about the letter was that writing the words allowed me to get a clearer look at each of my children and their year-to-year accomplishments. It also turned out to be a wonderful way to see how each of my children grew each year and how our lives changed with new additions to the family, moves, and every day life.

Teachers do not expect, and may not even want, a letter from you on the first day of school. But, if done correctly, you will find the simple act of writing a letter to be one of the most rewarding acts of parenting.

My letter included paragraphs on the following information:

1. Welcome back to teacher
2. Information about where your child fits in the family and their personality
3. General information about your child's academic abilities (be honest, but don't go overboard)
4. Hobbies or activities that your child enjoys
5. Information about my husband and me (jobs, how we could help in or out of the classroom, our belief that the teacher is in charge and our expectations for our children's behavior in the classroom)
6. Wishes for a successful year and contact information